REQUEST NO #20

"Be optimistic. You did not manage your marriage, so please try to manage at least the time after the divorce. Please read these requests that I write. You can talk about them together. But do not argue. Please do not use these requests to reproach the mistakes to the other parent. If you do so, you have not understood what I feel and what I need to get better."

The last request of this series is about respect to children. Time has been changing and children are treated more and more as partners for life. Children are involved to decision-making by judges, psychologists, guardians, teachers. And this is still improving. For us, parents, hearing children and partnership is sometimes more difficult then for professionals. Lets try to learn, how to manage I and how to treat our children with respect to what they feel. Despite it is demanding, turn our attention to our children. Let´s think about requests of children, let´s think about our children.